“Put away your pointless taboos and restrictions on sexual energy – rather help others to truly understand its wonder, and to channel it properly.”

Interview With Joy:

How did you become a Tantric Intimacy Coach?

Because of the intense sexual, emotional, and physical abuse I suffered as a child, during my teens I continued to be the victim of abuse. Although it is a controversial point of view, I truly believe that the abuse I endured is part of the reason that I am able to connect so deeply with people from all walks of life and from all sexual backgrounds.

As I began my transformational journey, I realized that I was a broken woman. The damage was mainly evident in my communication style and in my sex life. I was either pretending and performing for the pleasure of my partner, or completely shut down with little to no interest in sex.

As a result, I suffered from a variety of feminine issues (ovarian cysts, intense menstrual pain, and a series of miscarriages). At some point I decided to take charge of my sexuality. My path began with reading all of the related books I could get my hands on.

As I became more confident, I started attending workshops on sacred sexuality, Tantra, and Quodoshka teachings. I also dove into the art of alternative healing, learning EFT, Compassionate Communication, Tantric Fusion Massage, and I became a Certified Hypnotherapist.

During this process, the healing I experienced was literally life altering. Unfortunately, it was not enough. In addition to the healing work I was learning and implementing in my life, I realized that I also needed sexual healing.

To transform oneself from a sexual abuse victim to a sex goddess, Sexpert, and Tantric Intimacy Coach takes dedication, passion, and a desire to feel sexually alive and empowered. I also believe it is a life long journey. Although I am further along the path to sensual awakening than some, I still have a long way to go.

There is an old Theosophical statement that says “When the pupil is ready, the Master appears.” Some people have viewed me as their guru, master, or teacher, but my intention is to simply share what I have learned. I offer guidance, connection, and I share the knowledge I have gained through my personal life and through working with hundreds of men, women, and couples.

Who are your clients?

I work with men, women, and couples of all ages and from all walks of life. My clients are entrepreneurs, corporate executives, business, owners, and employees. My clients may be deeply religious, non-religious, conservative, or liberal.  I work with people just like you. People who have unmet sexual needs, people who want to increase their sexual intelligence, or who want to experience more pleasure in their lives.

It is my honor and deepest desire to share what I have learned with you so that you can experience love, passion, and fulfillment in your professional and personal life.

Training & Certification:

  • Pleasure Activist
  • Sensual Life Coach
  • Loving Touch Practitioner
  • Shaktara Workshop Facilitator
  • Reiki Master and Teacher
  • Permaculture Designer
  • Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist
  • Hypno-birthing Practitioner
  • EFT Training
  • Certified Doula

Personal: Joy Nelson is an author, Intimacy Coach, and a Pleasure Activist! When Joy is not teaching folks how to experience joyous lives and deeper intimacy, she is most likely writing or dancing ecstatically. Joy is a woman who truly follows her bliss.